In a previous post, I walked through a four-part business definition framework. Values, Purpose, Mission, and Vision and the four business priorities: to make money, deliver value, create culture, and enjoy work. It’s a solid foundation that should help reduce the chances of us feeling lost when making decisions about how we run our businesses.
But here’s the nub of the issue. Strategic clarity doesn’t tell you what to do when a potential client or existing client emails asking for work. You can have perfect clarity on your priorities and still have difficulty deciding whether to take the work on or to politely decline. Strategic clarity is valuable, but it’s not enough on its own.
Strategic clarity tells you that financial sustainability matters; operational clarity tells you whether this particular client inquiry threatens or supports that. Without operational clarity, you can end up in decision making paralysis. A framework rooted in your business priorities could make decision making easier for you and your team (if you have one).
Why do decision filters work?
Decision filters take your strategic priorities and turn them into yes/no or scored answers, but not all filters work equally as well.
- The best decision filters share four characteristics:
- They need to be binary or scored, with clear yes/no answers, or a simple scoring system.
- They need to be fast to apply, something you can run through in 2-5 minutes maximum or the cognitive load will stop you using it.
- They also need to be hierarchical, meaning some questions are dealbreakers while others are weighted preferences, and you need to know the difference.
- And finally, they need to be contextual. The questions you ask about a new client aren’t the same as the questions you ask about a scope change request.
The best decision filter is the one you’ll use
Four approaches to consider
The Gatekeeper Model
A sequence of yes/no questions that act as gates. Fail any gate? Automatic no. Pass all gates? Move to a scoring round. This is the approach I use most often for new client decisions, built directly from my four business priorities.
Gate 1: Does this protect or threaten financial sustainability? This maps to Priority 1 (make money). I need to know: is the budget realistic for the scope? Will I be paid on time based on their payment history or company size? Does this move me toward predictable retainer income rather than one-off projects?
Gate 2: Does this align with my positioning as a continuity partner? This is Priority 2 (deliver value). Are they looking for ongoing support, not a one-off fix? Do they value stability and documentation? Will this work demonstrate my core value proposition in a way I can point to later?
Gate 3: Would I feel good explaining this decision in 12 months? For Priority 3 (create culture), I ask: does this client respect boundaries and realistic timelines? Can I deliver this work to my standards without cutting corners? Is this the kind of client I want more of?
Gate 4: Does this create space for thinking, or just firefighting? Priority 4 is about enjoying the work, so I need to know: is this complex problem-solving or just reactive chaos? Will I learn something or build something worthwhile? Does the scope allow for proper work?
If a potential project fails any gate, it’s a no. This works brilliantly when you’re at risk of saying yes to things that fundamentally don’t fit.
The Risk Scoring Matrix
The first system I used way back when I started my business was risk scoring. Risk scoring involves setting up a simple matrix where you base your final decision upon a number of scored factors. When decisions aren’t binary but you still need consistency this approach really helps. The trick is to follow its advice rather than overrule it because you may be short on work. Many bad decisions have been made when we are trying to keep the lights on.
This method is useful because it gets you to think about both upside and downside of taking on a project. Just try hard not to influence your scoring to reach a decision that you want to get to. This isn’t about justifying something you already want to do, it’s about taking emotion out of the equation and making solid decisions.
This isn’t about justifying something you already want to do, it’s about taking emotion out of the equation
Here’s an example of how I may evaluate a prospect that wants to set up a retainer agreement. You can make the columns whatever suits you and your processes. These are really intangible columns in this instance but could include financial reviews of a company using their data at Companies House for example. You could also include things like, how do you get on with the nominated point of contact at the company etc.
| Choice | Risk/Exposure (not doing) | Risk/Exposure (of doing) | Potential (upside) | Comfort (happiness doing it) | Total |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| New retainer client (good fit) | 3 | -2 | 5 | 5 | 11 |
I score each factor 1 to 5 then calculate the total as: (Risk/Exposure of not doing) minus (Risk/Exposure of doing) plus Potential plus Comfort. My threshold is set at 10. Anything below that is a no, anything at or above is a yes. This scale is just illustrative though, you will need to come up with your own.
The two Risk/Exposure factors create balance and prevent bad decisions. The first asks: what’s the cost of walking away from this opportunity? What is the opportunity cost of saying no? The second asks: what’s the actual risk if I say yes? Scope creep, bad client fit, reputational damage, burnout, reduction in capacity or time I can’t get back?
Because the risk of doing acts as a negative modifier, a high-risk opportunity can end up with a negative total score even if it has some potential upside.
This approach forces you to be explicit about trade-offs rather than relying on gut feel. I have this in a spreadsheet template with colour coding for values (red for low scores, green for high) that makes patterns immediately obvious when you review past decisions.
Context-specific filter sets
Different decisions need different filters. I have different processes available if I’m considering a new client compared to working with an existing client for example. The joy with risk scoring is it can be used for almost any decision, even those internal things such as “do I put my rates up to x?”.
Each set has 3-5 questions tailored to that specific context. The benefit? You’re not trying to force every decision through the same framework. A 10pm emergency request needs different evaluation than a new retainer proposal.
The reality is that these are tools to use as and when you feel you need them. It’s not compulsory to pass everything through this method, that would slow things down and ignore all the learning you have taken on board. A lot of the time our instincts and education are sufficient, but when we have a shred of doubt or we feel that risks are potentially high, we have the tools to use.
The “Hell Yes or No” approach
Inspired by Derek Sivers, this one is beautifully simple: if it’s not a “hell yes,” it’s a no. But here’s the catch, you need to define what makes something a “hell yes” based on your own priorities, otherwise it’s just gut feel with a catchy name.
For me, a “hell yes” client inquiry means they understand and value digital continuity (not just “we need a website”), they’re looking for a partner rather than a vendor, the work plays to my strengths in WordPress, WooCommerce, and systems thinking, I genuinely like what they do as a business or organisation, and they are open to challenge and will constructively discuss ideas and differences of opinion. If any of those elements are missing, it’s probably not a hell yes. On reflection, the hell yes approach is a bit more of an intuitive informal version of the gatekeeper model.
Seeing filters in action: a real example
Let me show you how the Risk Scoring Matrix helped me avoid a decision I’d have regretted.
The inquiry: A mid-sized professional services firm wanted help redesigning their website. Decent budget, established company, clear timeline. On the surface, it looked like a solid opportunity. My gut was saying yes.
But I ran it through the risk scoring matrix anyway:
Risk/Exposure (not doing): 2/5. Not a huge opportunity cost. Similar projects come along regularly, and I had other work lined up.
Risk/Exposure (of doing): 4/5. Red flag. Their brief mentioned three rounds of stakeholder feedback, a committee decision-making structure, and they were looking for a “quick turnaround” on a complex site. High risk of scope creep, decision paralysis, and weekend work to meet unrealistic deadlines.
Potential (upside): 3/5. The work would pay well and look good in my portfolio, but it wasn’t transformative for my business or positioning.
Comfort (happiness doing it): 2/5. Honestly? The thought of managing committee feedback on a tight timeline made me tired just reading the brief.
| Choice | Risk/Exposure (not doing) | Risk/Exposure (of doing) | Potential (upside) | Comfort (happiness doing it) | Total |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| New retainer client (good fit) | 2 | -4 | 3 | 2 | 3 |
Total score: 2 – 4 + 3 + 2 = 3/10
Well below my threshold of 10. Without the matrix, I’d have seen the decent budget and said yes. The scoring matrix caught what my gut missed. This project had all the hallmarks of the kind of work that burns me out.
My response: I declined the project but referred them to a colleague whose business model is built around handling complex stakeholder processes. Win for them, win for my colleague, and I protected my time for work that actually fits my positioning as a continuity partner.
That’s the value of a decision filter. It catches the opportunities that look good on paper but don’t actually serve your business.
Building your own filters
To help you build your filters, ask yourself these five questions:
What decisions do you agonise over most? Client intake? Pricing? Saying no to existing clients? Focus your energy where the friction is highest, not on decisions that already feel easy.
How much time do you want to spend on each decision? Be honest about what you’ll actually use. A 30-second gut-check is more valuable than a 10-minute assessment you never complete.
What’s your risk tolerance? Would you rather occasionally say no to a good opportunity, or occasionally say yes to a bad one? There’s no wrong answer, but you need to know yours because it determines how strict your filters should be.
Do you want one universal framework or context-specific filters? Universal is simpler to remember and apply. Context-specific is more accurate for varied decision types. Choose based on how different your decisions actually are from each other.
What currently makes you say yes when you should say no? This reveals where your filters need to be strongest. Fear of missing out? People-pleasing? Financial anxiety? Name it, then build a gate specifically designed to catch it.
Your simple filter template
Here’s a basic template to get started. Fill in the blanks based on your business priorities:
New Client Gatekeeper Filter:
Gate 1: [Your Priority 1 question]
☐ Sub-question 1
☐ Sub-question 2
☐ Sub-question 3
Gate 2: [Your Priority 2 question]
☐ Sub-question 1
☐ Sub-question 2
Gate 3: [Your Priority 3 question]
☐ Sub-question 1
☐ Sub-question 2
Gate 4: [Your Priority 4 question]
☐ Sub-question 1
☐ Sub-question 2
Rule: Must pass ALL gates to proceed to proposal stage.
Copy this, customise the questions to match your specific priorities, and keep it somewhere you can access quickly when you need it.
Why decision filters matter
Once you have a filter in place, you’ll start noticing patterns in your decisions much faster. You’ll spot red flags earlier, sometimes within the first two sentences of an inquiry email. You’ll get quicker at recognising when an opportunity is worth your time and when it’s a distraction dressed up as potential. The mental load of decision-making drops significantly because you’re not re-arguing every choice from scratch.
Learning from your decisions
Here’s where decision filters become really powerful, they’re not just for making better choices in the moment, they’re also a tool for reflection. Just like time tracking reveals which tasks were time sinks or which projects you consistently underestimated, reviewing your past filter scores reveals patterns in your judgement that you’d never spot otherwise.
Do projects at your threshold tend to become regrets?
You might discover you always score “comfort” too high when the budget looks good, even when other red flags are present. Or that projects scoring exactly 10 (right at your threshold) tend to be the ones you regret six months later, which tells you to raise your threshold to 11 or 12. Maybe you notice that every time you override your gatekeeper filter with “but this could be a good opportunity,” you end up burned out and underpaid.
That reflection loop is where you learn to trust your filter more than your gut. Your gut is optimised for immediate emotional responses. Fear of missing out, people-pleasing, the dopamine hit of a new opportunity. Your filter is optimised for your actual business priorities. The more you review past decisions, the more you internalise which signal to trust.
What happens next
Your filters will evolve as your business evolves. That threshold you set at 10? You might raise it to 12 when you’re at capacity, or lower it to 8 when you’re building momentum. The gates that matter most will shift as your priorities change. A gate about financial sustainability might be critical in year one but less urgent once you have six months of runway. That’s fine. Decision filters are living tools, not static documents.
The key is to actually use them. Build your filter based on your strategic priorities from the last post, keep it somewhere accessible (I keep mine in Notion), and run at least your next three opportunities through it. You’ll know quickly whether it’s working and where it needs adjustment.
Need help defining your business foundation?
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